Family Life Parenting with Purpose | Faith-Based Guidance for Families
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Family Life Parenting with purpose means more than simply getting through the days — it’s about...
Shaping a home where love overflows, Laughter echoes, and Memories are made that last a lifetime.
It's not about Perfection Parenting, but about being present, intentional and anchored in God's truth.
As a Christian family raising six children — and still learning every single day — we know a strong, joy-filled home doesn’t just happen.
It’s built in the trenches through:
Prayer when we’re Weary,
Vision when we’re Discouraged, and
Daily Choices to cling to God’s unchanging truth.
For over 25 years, we’ve been educators and coaches, working with children from energetic elementary students to determined high school athletes. Watching young people grow, stretch, and reach their potential has been a joy.
But our greatest calling and greatest classroom has been our own home.
“Children Don't Remember Perfect Homes;
They Remember Present Parents.
– Family Life Parenting
We still make mistakes. We still have days where nothing goes as planned. But even in the messiest moments, we’ve seen how God uses our imperfect efforts to grow something beautiful.
One evening, after a long and exhausting day, one of our younger kids curled up on the couch next to us and said quietly, “I like it when we’re all together.”
That’s when
we remembered: children don’t remember perfect homes.
They remember present parents.
Sometimes, “present” looks a little chaotic — and that’s okay.
Safety disclaimer / warning:
This image tells a personal story and is not a recommended sleep setup.
Backpack carriers are not designed for unattended sleep and soft cushions can pose suffocation and tipping risks.
• Always keep constant, arms-reach supervision.
• Use carriers only on the floor, never on elevated surfaces.
• Ensure the carrier is stable; if you add support (e.g., against sturdy furniture), understand this still isn’t a secure system.
• Keep all soft items away from baby’s face; stop immediately if the baby’s chin tucks to chest or breathing seems restricted.
• For sleep, the safest place is a flat, empty crib/bassinet with the baby placed on their back.
This setup was a one-time, closely supervised solution in our story—not advice to replicate.Parenting 'magic' sometimes isn’t about following the manual — it’s about creative love and soft security.
By the time my third child came along — a big, strapping boy — I thought I had this whole parenting thing down. I’d embraced attachment parenting, so I carried him everywhere in one of those backpack carriers. Cooking? He was back there. Doing dishes? Back there. Folding laundry? Back there.
And then… nap time.
Oh, the precious moment when he’d finally drift off, his little head lolling to the side. I’d tiptoe like a ninja, easing off the straps, holding my breath as I lifted him out. The bed was just a few steps away. I’d lay him down, silently cheering myself on — we’re good, we’re good…
Nope. Eyes wide open. Nap over. Weeks of this.
Then I had an idea. The backpack had a stand — sturdy enough to keep him upright. What if… I just… left him there? I surrounded it with pillows, just in case. And for extra security, I wrapped my giant breastfeeding pillow around the base like a protective snake guarding its treasure, then piled more pillows all around until it looked like a baby fortress.
I gave the setup a wiggle — rock solid.
And so, one fateful day, I propped him in the backpack, breastfeeding pillow and all, and walked away. He slept. He slept! No accidents, no wake-ups, just a happy boy waking up refreshed and a relaxed and well rested mama.
Sometimes, parenting magic isn’t about following the manual — it’s about thinking outside the box… or in this case, keeping the baby in the box, surrounded by the softest security system ever invented.
Without an intentional vision, it’s easy to let the urgent crowd out the important. School runs, work deadlines, sports schedules, and social media can pull us in every direction.
But when we keep our eyes on the bigger picture — raising children who know they are loved by us and by God — the daily chaos finds its place.
Parenting with purpose means thinking long-term:
A loving home doesn’t come together by accident. It’s a daily choice to:
In our home, that purpose is woven into small moments — bedtime prayers whispered in the dark, shared meals where we talk about the day, walks where little hands slip into ours, and laughter over inside jokes only we understand. These simple rhythms anchor us and remind each of us: You belong here.
Life can pull families in many directions — work demands, school deadlines, sports practices, endless to-do lists. We’ve learned to protect family time, set healthy boundaries with technology, and make space for rest and joy. Purposeful parenting isn’t about adding more activities. It’s about protecting what matters most.
There have been times we didn’t know the next step — moments of uncertainty, worry, and even fear. We’ve leaned into God’s truth in late-night feedings, hard teenage conversations, and moments when parenting felt overwhelming. His grace has a way of turning ordinary days into opportunities for growth and love.
This website is our way of sharing what we’ve learned — the triumphs and the stumbles, the practical ideas and the heart-level encouragement.
This website is our way of sharing what we’ve learned — the triumphs and the stumbles, the practical ideas and the heart-level encouragement.
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Strong relationships thrive when couples make time for shared activities. Whether it’s running along the beach, enjoying a morning walk, or trying something new together, these moments keep love and connection alive in marriage and family life.
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Family Life Parenting with Purpose lifts up our spirits. There’s is really nothing quite like the warmth of family snuggles at home. From playful giggles to quiet moments together, these are the memories that build strong family bonds. Parenting is a journey filled with love, connection, and everyday joy.
Family Life Parenting with Purpose can help when Parenting today can feel like life is just moving so fast that it can feel like it's hard to keep up.
Between busy schedules, endless notifications, and constant distractions, it’s easy to feel stretched thin.
We’re walking this journey with you — learning as we go, leaning on God for wisdom, and creating homes where every child feels loved, seen, and valued.
We’re here to share the lessons, encouragement, and hope we’ve discovered along the way.
Are You Ready to grow a loving home, one step at a time?
Forget about trying to reach perfect parenting, that doesn't exist. Strive towards family life parenting with purpose
We hope this space encourages you, reminds you that you’re not alone, and inspires you to keep showing up for your family. Parenting with purpose isn’t about having a flawless plan — it’s about choosing love, again and again, and trusting God with the outcome.
So come along with us. Let’s walk this road side by side, building homes filled with love, anchored in faith, and rich with memories that make our children want to come back home — not just for the holidays, but for the joy of being together.
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This is family life parenting with purpose. it's not always easy or convenient but to see such Joy, our proud little one's face glowing.
What a beautiful thing. We are so glad that we spent some time to enjoy the time together.
Never miss a golden opportunity to build up each relationship with each family member.
It is so worth it.
Just look at our boy's beaming smile!
Our adorable son Antonio proudly presenting his freshly baked cinnamon buns, known in our family as ‘Swirlies’ or the classic European-style ‘Schnecke.’ These soft, golden pastries are swirled with sweet cinnamon sugar and drizzled with icing, making them a delightful homemade treat perfect for family breakfasts, weekend baking traditions, or sharing loved ones.
